These 5 Signs Are The Easiest Ways To Know If You Are Being Treated Right In Your Relationship
No woman wants to think that their partner is treating them poorly. Sometimes, when we’re being treated like filth, we don’t even notice until it’s far too late.
However, the people around us often do notice what’s going on. You may find that your friends and family have tried to discuss this exact issue with you. It’s a very hard thing to come to terms with.
There are definite signs that we can keep an eye out for when someone we love is treating us poorly. By recognizing these signs, you will be able to make the bad acts stop, or find a way to get out of that relationship entirely.
No one deserves to be treated with anything less than complete respect and love when it comes to relationships.
1. You’re being taken for granted
You might not notice right away that this is the case. But consider how much you’re doing for your partner versus what they do for you. Is your relationship equal?
Sometimes we have to take on more responsibility in our relationships, but the point is to do so in order to help our partners. If you find that you are always doing things for them but they never reciprocate, then something is wrong.
2. Your partner doesn’t respect you
If you find that your partner often talks over you or teases you in ways you don’t enjoy being teased, you may be facing a partner who doesn’t respect you. Other signs of lack of respect include your partner exhibiting passive aggressive behavior towards you..
3. Your partner oversteps your boundaries
Have you told your partner that certain things bother you, and you would prefer that they didn’t do those things to or around you? I’m sure many of us have had those kinds of conversations. Most adult relationships do!
However, if you find that your partner is constantly crossing your boundaries when it comes to the things that you would prefer not to happen or you totally hate, then this is a big sign that your partner is treating your poorly.
Your boundaries should be firm, and your partner should always respect them. If this happens, it’s time to have a serious talk with your partner about your boundaries, and how it makes you feel when they get crossed.
4. Your partner doesn’t meet your emotional or physical needs
A sign that your partner is treating you poorly is their inability to meet your needs, whether they be physical or emotional. Your partner may be very sweet, but your sex life could be extremely lacking.
Or, your relationship may be all about sex and you’re not getting your emotional needs met. Your partner might be entirely focused on themselves in one or both of these areas, which leaves you without the type of emotional or physical support that you need from them.
5. Your partner doesn’t take interest in how you’re feeling
You may notice that you’re the one who always asks how your partner is doing, if they need anything, and how they’re feeling. If your partner does not seem to be able to do the same for you, it’s a sign that your partner is treating you poorly and you’re not getting what you need out of the relationship.
Maybe your partner just never considers that they have to ask to get an answer, or maybe they’re in a very stressful time in their life that makes them a bit inconsiderate.
All in all, if these signs are what you are experiencing in your relationship, then you need to talk to your partner and if talking isn’t changing anything. You might consider leaving.