Signs That A Man Would Marry You

Nearly everyone goes through their own personal checklist when they get a few years into a relationship and they begin to think of the next step.

You wonder what he’s thinking. You analyze his every action, his every look and glance. There is really no need for undue stress. We would help you find out.

You should know that there are some core signs to look for that will let you know if your man is thinking of taking the permanent step with your and marrying you.

1. He talks about it

If your guy asks you how you want your dream wedding to be , your preferred wedding colours, ring size or likes to raise some important aspect of the wedding he is particular about, then he is definitely planning to settle down with you.

2. He plans with you in mind

Men naturally are wired to know the details and intricacies of every project they want to get involved in. A wedding is like a project to a man, and factors such as accommodation, career development, finances etc. are considered.

The interesting thing about this is that he plans all this with you in mind. He is genuinely concerned about how these seemingly minute details will affect your life.

3. He delights in your happiness

If a guy goes out of his way consistently and genuinely to do tasks or go on events he normally would not go to, just to make you happy, he is definitely gearing to pop up the marriage question.

The serious marriage minded guy does not complain about it. He does not care how he is going to look before his friends. Watch out for his body language when he is accompanying you, Is he comfortable? He might not be excited, but is he there in mind, body and soul? Is he genuinely interested in knowing more about what you love?

4. He helps you become better

A guy who is ready to get married to a woman, genuinely wants her to make progress. Guys want their women to rep them in a good way, so they want to help their women become better.

He always wants to know about your career, job, hobby or craft. Does he proffer solutions to challenges that seem to weigh you down? Now we do not mean being possessive, judgemental and demeaning. Traits of jealousy and competition are a NO-NO.

5. He shows that he trusts you

One thing you have to understand is that trust is earned. A guy who wants to get married to you, will eventually open up to you, when he finds out you are genuinely concerned about his welfare. We call it wife material.

When a guy finds his “wife material” he starts asking for your opinion on everything, he opens his inner thoughts, fears and deep feelings. He practically shares his life with you.

That does not mean he is not ready for marriage if he is not doing all this now. It is a gradual process. Give him time, and give him that motherly love and care without judging him.

6. He introduces you to his family

If your guy wants you to meet his family, be around him at family events, meet his siblings and people he loves, he really wants to settle down with you. He has seen you as a member of his family.

7. He is not scared to let you know

Men get emotional and somehow soft when they have found the woman they want to spend their lives with. They are not scared to let you know how they feel. He is not ashamed to tell you how much you mean to him. He is always telling you how special you are to him.