How To Get Over Your Break Up Before In The New Year

We are just one week away from the new year and this is a good time to decide how you will finally get over breakup and start on a clean slate.

Probably the break up came as a shock to you because you felt the coming year should even be the time to take things to the next level but the contrary happened.

Getting over an ex is never easy but the new year always comes with a feeling of a fresh start and you should take advantage of it. Here is how to do it.

1. Focus on what you can learn

Take a break from hurting and passing blames on whose fault it was you broke up and think about what your previous relationship has taught you. Think about those things that can be done better in your next relationship and how you can improve in the new year.

2. Consider taking a break from social media

As much as we don’t encourage you to isolate yourself this period, taking a break from social media can help you heal faster. It is very easy for you to ‘continue’ your previous relationship by keeping up with your ex and his activities through social media, so if you know you can’t help it, its better you avoid social media for now.

3. Form new memories

This holiday season is one of the best times to create new memories and work towards moving on. Hang out with friends and family members and enjoy the festivities with them instead of avoiding them.

4. Be good to yourself

Part of being good to yourself is focusing on activities that will make you feel better about yourself. What is done is done so don’t dwell on the past. Think of ways you can improve yourself in the new year for a new relationship.