You have probably heard that, as a woman, you shouldn’t give a man money, and there are valid reasons for this.
Recently, stories about how men used and dumped women after having drained them financially, physically, and mentally have flooded the internet.
As a result of this, more women are coming out with their stories to make the world know that giving a man money whom you are not married to is a bad idea.
Wondering if it’s really not wrong to give your man money? Here are 5 reasons that will change your mind immediately.
1. He may become lazy
There is something called “responsibility,” and if, as a lady, you keep playing the role of the man in your relationship, you’d regret it at the end of the day. This is not saying that you cannot help out once in a while, but limit it. Allow your man to be responsible and hardworking. Do not try to play his role.
2. He may take you for granted
Almost all of the stories we hear about women who went all out for their boyfriends have pathetic ends. Do not allow this to happen to you. The truth is, when men meet generous ladies, they see her as desperate and senseless most of the time, and they end up taking advantage of her.
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3. He will most likely leave
Wondering how true this is? It is very true. Oh, he will keep stringing you along, promising you heaven and the earth, but in the long run, you’ll find out his intentions for you are not honorable because you gave him everything on a platter of gold.
4. He expects you to be the breadwinner after marriage
If eventually he does the honorable thing and marries you, there is bound to be friction in your home because he has become used to you picking up the financial responsibilities. Meanwhile, this will hurt you more because you felt you were merely supporting him and not taking his role as the man. He will stylishly ask you to pay bills and run the house even if he perhaps has a little money.
5. He becomes entitled
The minute you refuse to give him your money, he will automatically think you have changed, or you have been listening to bad advice from friends. Men like that feel entitled to everything you have because you made them too comfortable, and when you realize your mistakes, it is too late because they just might never change.
