Do you know there are some important sex facts that you are not aware of?
Sex is an integral part of human existence as we engage in it both for pleasure and procreation. It is however surprising that as important as sex is to our very being as humans, most women only know the basics of what it is about. Aside from the edited versions we are taught while at school, most adults only play it by ear based on what they see in the movies.
As much sex can be a taboo topic in our society, we must know some facts about it so that we can better find satisfaction in it with our partners and know when something is wrong with us sexually.
Here are nine facts every woman should know about sex.
1. Every woman has her trigger
For women who do not enjoy sex, it is usually because they have yet to discover what works for them. This is why professionals would advise that you try different positions and get creative while with your partner. Knowing what triggers you pleasure-wise will determine how much fulfillment you get from sex.
2. Your flaws don’t matter to your partner during sex
According to studies, when a man is aroused, he doesn’t notice the woman’s bodily flaws. So, rest easy and don’t get caught up trying to hide yourself. You definitely won’t be having any fun thinking your man is bothered by the side folds you are spotting.
3. The more romantic it is for you the better
If your man is suggesting some romantic atmosphere for your next rendezvous, by all means, let him. Women usually get more aroused when they feel cared for before the sex itself. The next time you and hubby have some free time, go all out and make it a very romantic one. You will be glad you did.
4. The more sex you have, the more you will want to
It is simple. Our brain holds on to memories that give us pleasure and ultimately we will always want to reenact events that bring bliss to us.
5. It’s okay to choose sleep over sex
There are days you will surely be too tired to even think of taking off your clothes. At this point, it is okay to want to sleep instead of have sex. After all, you will enjoy it better when you are wide awake.
6. Pain during sex is not normal
Feeling pain the first time you have sex is okay but feeling pain times after that should be checked. It could be that your partner was rough, or you were not aroused enough or there is something medically wrong with you.
7. Kegels can help improve your sex life
Kegel exercises are the key to a more toned vaginal muscle. This exercise firms up your pelvic muscles leading to more pleasure during sex.
8. Peeing after sex can save your life
Peeing immediately after sexual intercourse rids your urinary tract of bacteria that may cause Urinary Tract Infection (UTI). Ensure you visit the loo before taking a snooze.
9. Sex gets better with age
As you and your partner get more familiar with each other’s body, you tend to learn what will give the most pleasure to the both of you. With time you both will learn what works for you and what doesn’t.