Important Signs That He Is Not Your Husband

Have you been dating someone for quite a while and wondering if you can have a future with him? Have you decided to weigh your options to know if you really want to spend the rest of your life together wit that individual?

Then this post is specially for you. Below are some top signs why you should not marry that man.

7 Signs That Would Tell You If Your Partner Wants To ‘Wife’ You

1. You find yourself not always wanting to be around him

When you are dating someone who is really special to you, you naturally want to spend as much time as possible with him.

Try spending an extended period of time with your boyfriend, and if you find yourself getting easily annoyed with him or needing a break from him, this could be a red flag.

2. You have a list of things he needs to stop doing, saying or wearing.

If you’re fixating on his flaws, he’s either not the one you want or YOU are not ready for a serious relationship. Cutting him loose allows you time to grow and gives you the opportunity to meet a guy whose flaws you can embrace, or at least accept.

3. You don’t trust him.

A small dose of jealousy can be healthy, but if you’re hacking into his email account and constantly trying to know where he goes or who he is with, something is wrong. If there’s something about him that truly warrants your distrust, then perhaps he’s not the right one for you.

4. You never turn to him for comfort to improve your mood.

When you’re in bad mood or had a rough day, do you lock yourself into the bathroom so he would not see you at your worst? If you’re worried about scaring him away, one of you isn’t ready for commitment. The perfect one for you should make you smile through your tears, and be have a calming, not stressful, presence.

5. You don’t respect each other.

He puts you down in front of your friends and complains about you to his parents. You give off dissatisfaction when he talks because there’s just something about him that embarrasses you. A relationship without respect can’t sustain itself.

6. You cry more than you laugh

The dating and marriage life is not easy. It is filled with apprehension and uncertainty, and tears naturally fit those emotions. However, if there is so much drama that you find yourself crying more than you are smiling, your relationship could be the problem.

Examine how you feel when you are around your boyfriend and when you are apart. If you realize you are generally less happy than you were before you started dating, it may be best to break things off.